5 signs you're a high value woman

My love, 

Being a high-value woman doesn't have to mean you change who you are. It doesn't mean you're  bossy or bratty or bitchy. It simply means you respect yourself with holding standards + boundaries.

I was having a conversation with a client about boldness and taking back her power in business + dating... One of the things she had said was:

'I just don't view myself as bold. I'm not assertive or loud... and to be honest I don't really care much about designer labels' 

She was making the term "high-value woman" mean certain things, when it doesn't mean any of these.

You can be soft and sweet, AND hold high standards and set strong boundaries.

Being a high-value woman doesn't mean you change who you are, it means you release layers that are NOT actually you like...

>> people-pleasing

>> proving yourself

>> hiding yourself and dimming your light

>> over-doing and over-compensating

5 standards to hold as a high-value woman in business or dating:

1. Never fight over or convince

Whether it's over men or signing on a new client, as a high-value + magnetic woman, we must NEVER do this.

Instead, we ATTRACT. We understand that we are the prize. 

The energy of "fighting over" and "convincing" feels like desperation, energetically.

2. You feel so grateful and appreciative for amazing men + all of the abundance of clients.

If you're currently feeling:

"all men suck" or "no clients can afford my services".. it's a tell-tale sign your belief systems DO NOT match your desires. 

If you want the dreamy love story or the business thriving with high quality clients, you must shift your energy around how you receive.

Because right now, you're receiving exactly what you're an energetic match to (what you're believing, the stories you're telling yourself, the identity your taking on)

3. You hold a mindset of abundance and you don't compromise your standards for breadcrumbs

This is huge! It's easy to choose a standard, but not as easy to actually hold it when we're tested.

Can you still hold your standard when the hot guy offers you nothing but breadcrumbs?

Can you still hold your standard of receiving, when no sales come through?

4. You're not desperate + you don't settle/ wait around

I mean this is obvious. We can all sniff out desperation vibes. But sometimes desperation and "need" is sneaky. 

It can show up as accepting mediocracy and settling for something, when what we really want is the big, beautiful, divine romance. It can also show up as us "waiting around"...

...waiting for the guy to text us or ask us on another date

...OR waiting on our next move in business.

Remember: High-value women DO NOT settle for netflix + chill first dates and for discounting our prices every time a person says they "can't afford us"

This is my favorite question to ask when I feel lonely or notice myself entertaining breadcrumbs:

"What void am I trying to fill? What am I actually afraid of in claiming this bigger desire?"

And often it's that I'm not giving myself enough pampering, love, patience and self-care. I'm not believing in myself enough to hold a big standard because I'm exhausted. So, I reset and realign!

5. You value yourself enough to be single + at peace rather than in an insecure relationship

And this can also mean in business, you say no to the client you KNOW is unaligned, just for the money (ew...)

My single journey has been A JOURNEY. There were so many times I thought it would feel better *if* I was just in a relationship, but any time I would entertain someone that couldn't match my values in life, it felt like settling. It's a waste of time for both of you. It's better to say no and respect yourself enough to stand for what you DO want.

The more you say "no" to the things you do not want and don't feel AMAZING, the more the universe sends you the YES'S - the one, the match, the high-level things!

Remember: High-value, confident women do not settle.

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