I sat in first class and was treated like a Queen on the way to my destination and on the way home I sat at the very back of the plane next to the bathrooms, in the middle seat.

I don't think I've ever shared the full story of my very first, first class flight. It was such a pivotal moment of 'okay who am I here to be now? What am I choosing?'. We can all learn from my best and worst flight experience.

Ps... My newest course Rich Girl Era is now open, the course where you get to become the woman who holds high standards & sits in first class ;) If you're in the era of: I am no longer settling. I am meant to be rich. I am meant to make a lot of money. BUT ofc still be in my softness... This course is for you.  (You can find more information here). 

So let me take you back...

I gathered my new red, leather luggage and handed it to the driver in the black SUV. This was the dream luggage I had...

I was in a bikini, sipping a pina colada that I had just ordered, at a 5-star hotel {The Andaz} on the island of Maui.

'This moment feels so good', I say to myself. 

I had gone on my second one-way ticket trip to Maui solo + single, soaking up the sun, dating vacation boyfriends, and coaching my clients from my bikini.

Part of me couldn't believe this moment. I couldn't believe I was actually here and actually doing this, not once but twice! In the beginning of starting my business, I didn't really know what to expect.

My first goal was to simply just make money, any money.

My second goal was to make $2-3k per month so I could afford to live, on a budget, off of my salary (this was back before inflation hahaha).

And after a couple years of building my brand, investing in uncomfortable growth, and staying EXTREMELY patient as things felt like they were never working...

I leapt to six figures. And then invested more + more....

My love, 

Being a high-value woman doesn't have to mean you change who you are. It doesn't mean you're  bossy or bratty or bitchy. It simply means you respect yourself with holding standards + boundaries.

I was having a conversation with a client about boldness and taking back her power in business + dating... One of the things she had said was:

'I just don't view myself as bold. I'm not assertive or loud... and to be honest I don't really care much about designer labels' 

She was making the term "high-value woman" mean certain things, when it doesn't mean any of these.

You can be soft and sweet, AND hold high standards and set strong boundaries.

Being a high-value woman doesn't mean you change who you are, it means you release layers that are NOT actually you like...

>> people-pleasing

>> proving yourself

>> hiding yourself and dimming your light

>> over-doing and over-compensating

5...

I remember when I first began on my single girl journey after a long term relationship and having NO IDEA how to date.

In high school and college, I didn't need a guide to date. I wasn't dating intentionally back then, so it didn't really matter. I dated boys because they were hot or because they were sweet or because my unhealed trauma liked the chaos (oops haha). I wasn't really thinking "marriage". And I also wasn't a successful, embodied, wealthy woman yet.

When I began dating as an empowered, mature, successful woman, I began to realize something powerful...

I do not need a man.

I do not need a man for financial support or because I'm lonely or because I'm filling a void or because I am bored (THESE ARE NOT REASONS TO DATE).

But oh baby, do I DESIRE a man.

My desire (NOT need) for a man is potent, therefore, I date intentionally.

I hold strong standards as a high value woman, I know how to lead with pleasure, and I have a doctorate in...

By the time I turned 30, I had created a multiple six figure company being single, traveling the world in luxury solo, and pouring my heart out online for everyone to read. 

(And I'm teaching you how to do this all inside of my newest LUCKY GIRL ERA - your gateway to your dreamiest, most luxurious life and business)

I shared stories of heartbreak during the hardest break up of my life,

I shared lessons of mistakes I made in business, love, and in life,

I shared celebrations and big wins with money, with business and with romance,

I shared my fears of airplanes as I hopped on a flight to Maui for the first time or selling everything i owned and moving to a new city,

I shared my experience of my first boudoir photoshoots on the beach,

And my deep fears I'd overcome around my sensuality and magnetism

So much of my identity had to shift in order to become this version of me.

I had to learn how to navigate that heartbreak, as an empowered...